Am i able to get a non molestation order on my ex?

It's too late now, you can't do anything. Especially because it is well after the fact that it happened and most courts, police, or people wouldn't believe you because you didn't immediately report it (and actually did the polar opposite by waiting until you didn't live together or have much contact). Protip: send someone else to give him his stuff, or make someone else pick it up. You can also send it to him somehow. Stop being a child and not seeing clear ways to avoid this scenario from this point forward. If you wanted to be out of this abusive relationship you seem to be well on your way but it seems like you just want attention and revenge.